I am so sorry you are going through this. I remember those days of having a MLCer living under my roof. It's not easy, but you will need to dig deeper for patience and find a bit of humor... After all, do you honestly think he's going to remember which box he packed his favorite clothes? Pretty soon, he won't have anything to put on if he continues packing.
Take care and stay safe.
Lol! And I’ll be the one who gets yelled at! I remember him coming home from work early on in this and accusing me of hiding his eye glasses. He found them a week later in his room. Thx job - I love hearing from you guys. Your words, explanations and advice are quite calming and valuable. H is 100% displaying teenage behaviour... it’s so clear and bizarre at the same time.
Cardinal - thank you for the reminder to let things play out. It’s so important to not live in future speculations. It does no good. As you pointed out it’s the changes in temperature in the house that are challenging to manage. I have to get better at not noticing his behaviour, or jumping up when he closes the door to take a call.
Update - Two weeks ago his L proposed that we have all disclosure info submitted tomorrow. My L asked for a change in date of S (2 weeks ago) ...once again we’ve heard nothing. Hurry up, hurry up....radio silent yet packing boxes like a mad man. Confusing and sad. Why not just get on with it? It’s not like he’s waivered on what he wants.
