Canbird, you sound peaceful in your latest update. No expectations of either H or yourself so you can't be disappointed. Smart. Mum guilt is normal even at the best of times, so cut yourself some slack during this quarantine. We're all just doing our best to keep our spirits up. Embrace the screentime and snacks!
It's nice for you that H is still communicating random things. It shows he still cares in some way, even if just as a friend.
I can't remember the last time my XH asked after S2. Actually, I can. It was when I stopped making the effort to keep him involved right after discovering OW. So October last year. Pretty sad. XH has never asked to video chat or phone call with S2, and S2 never asks, so I'm not too sure how I'd handle it. They see each other twice a week and every other Sunday, so maybe that's enough.
