Still married couple from Scandinavia Part 2

[AnotherStander]

We have a long way to go before I would consider being in a relationship with her again. Even if she clearly said that is what she wants, I can easily see how another BD would hit me sometime in the future. I wish I could be happy about her reaching out and wanting to be around me all the time, but I just can't take her back when she hasn't done any of the work needed for herself.

You are definitely wise to be cautious.

One of the first things she mentioned was that her friends had told her later that they were shocked to see how "fresh" I looked.

Yup. Well you are "fresh" You're in the best shape of your life, you're living your life on your terms, you're enjoying your food excursions, you're overall sending a message that you are confident and secure in who you are. It's going to be very hard for her not to be attracted to that.

AS, I have blocked W from Instagram but not her family. I would be surprised if she had another account to stalk me.

I would lay money that she is snooping. It would be a very safe bet I think When she was wayward she probably didn't bother, but now she's getting curious. Making excuses to contact you, asking questions, hanging around you when she doesn't need to, asking you out. Yeah I am quite confident she sees everything you're posting on social media whether she's blocked or not.

She said her sister had mentioned to her a while back she saw one of my Instastories. The video she saw was three pugs running in to my apartment

Hahaha! Yeah, "her sister" saw it