By bare bones I mean mostly the 4 walls. In 6 months my dryer died, had to have a tooth removed, an expensive car repair, etc. I saved up $7k for legal fees before he kicked me and the kids out of our home. I've been using that to cover expenses above the 4 walls while I wait for more support. We don't go anywhere now due to COVID so I'm back saving while we live on Ragu and canned fruit. I bought powdered milk, flour and baking supplies so they have plenty of treats. My kids understand and they have not complained once. They know a divorce isn't cheap and know how much I've saved. There is a game plan and they are a part of it. They want a nicer house too.
