While I've been able to leaves my tears behind... because they sooooo don't want to see any tears, we all have slip ups.
Just today I asked H if this is still on track and there is no hope... What was I thinking??? I 100% know this is a behavior that pushes them away. I put down the phone and swore NO MORE.
So join with me ----- NO MORE!!!!
Pick yourself up and make a plan for MO. MO what's on that plan? Weekend is coming up... don't fret. Make a list of what YOU need to do.
Do not contact him. Let him feel your absence... let him know you are 100% able to take care of yourself (even if you don't feel it right now!) Remove all the pressure from him.
