Stop talking to him on the phone. It violates the rules of engagement at this point:

-If he calls let it go to voicemail. Do not call back. If he asks a question in the VM, text him back at a later time with an answer, short and too the point.

If he texts an informational text, do not respond. If he asks a question answer it at a later time, in as few words as possible. Yes or no questions get yes or no answers.

I know you pooh-poohed my suggested that you still enjoyed his attention even in negative interactions. But why do you keep talking to him? You were so strong in your "I am going to tell him to have his attorney handle these things (order) with my attorney." THat was the right approach. When the order comes up (preferably in texts not voice!), you say "have your attorney contact my attorney about it". WHO CARES IF HE HAS GOTTEN A NEW ATTORNEY OR NOT? That is his problem.

KC, I haven't been engaged in your sitch for a while but I seem many of the same mistakes as before. You haven't let go at all. Even the deer stand shows you are still trying to please him. Does it even make sense to you to try to please a lying cheater? If you were a friend, would you want your friend to be appeasing and catering to a lying cheater?

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018