The convo started out with some light stuff. Actual discussion of things in the world. Then I mentioned my mom and her H coming back home and seeing about getting the welder for H to fix deer stand.
That p*ssed him off. Why would I do that?
I didn't actually say this but the deer stand has been sitting in my back yard for weeks. He was the one to say that my mom's H had a welder. H was supposed to be doing some fence work at the house so I thought it was a nice gesture in return. WHATEVER.
Moved on to when he can come to the house to get more of his things - decided Sunday. He asked for early morning and I suggested noon... he did not like that (please keep in mind 2 weeks ago I said noon and he showed up at 1pm). He asked for 10 so I suggested 11. He was happy but said FINE.
That was almost the end of the call.. then he was like WAIT what about the order - you said there was a work around. I agreed that I did and said what it was but didn't know if would work and atty didn't recommend... His response oh your dimwit atty.
He then said I wish you were as fast fixing your mistakes as making them. I apologized but stated I had gotten all his other paperwork that he had been requesting over the last 2 weeks. Not a word - no thank you, nothing... WHATEVER.
I wanted to ask if he had gotten new atty and started over --- but what would be the point?
I didn't back down from the order..... BUT I FEEL LIKE SUCH A DOORMAT tonight.
I'm so sick of all this.
When we are in person things are just calmer and kinder. He doesn't really look me in the eyes but he is polite and helpful. Tonight he was clearly not happy and his mood was dark.
I will say that in the past when things haven't gone his way he would start saying things like "this is why I can't trust you", "you are just out to screw me over" and tons of texts.... he didn't do that tonight. I appreciated that he didn't do that to me tonight.
I'm crushed but I will survive.
Last edited by job; 04/29/2001:50 PM. Reason: edited language
