Pax, I can't say I know anything about lawyers, but I will say, you are not a disposable accessory. Please don't say that even here. If we say it, then some part of us believes it. I know how much this hurt you. I know as I am going through it now. But you were his WIFE and you are still loved and valuable. Even if he doesn't show it or see it, you must know it.

If not, I dare you to go to the mirror, look in your own eyes and tell yourself- I LOVE YOU. YOU ARE ENOUGH. YOU ARE WORTHY. YOU ARE EVERYTHING. I WILL NEVER ABANDON YOU.

Please keep saying it. If all we have, ever, is ourselves... then let's be our own best friend. Our own cheerleader. Our own lover. Our own world. No one can make us an accessory or anything else. We-- YOU-- are more than that.

Always were... always will be.

Blessings


W (me): 50 H: 46
M: 21 T: 25
S:17 D:15
BD 11/2019

Fate whispers to the warrior, "You can not withstand the storm" And the warrior whispers back, "I am the storm." ~Unknown