She lives with H but can't stand him so she only sees him at dinner and she stays on a different floor.
Sounds like she's fairly low risk then. How about she showers before she comes, wears a mask and keeps 6 foot distance, washes her hands when she comes into the house and takes off her shoes? I know it seems like a lot but it would keep everybody safe and lessen the stress on your son.
For comparison - my boyfriend has lung cancer and my oldest son works in a grocery store stocking shelves at night. Son wears a mask at work and washed his hands and cleans his phone the minute he comes in the house - even before he pets the cat. He doesn't wear a mask inside but keeps 6 foot distance at all times. I haven't hugged him in over a month. We wipe every handle and surface in the kitchen with disinfectant before my boyfriend and I cook. I wipe down the bannister on the stairs. I am normally so NOT a germophobe but this is the reality we are in now.
