I get what you are saying LH ---- I've been strong on many fronts this one spot is difficult for me.

Namely the money in the account is technically NOT mine but HIS. Ultimately it will go back to him. My atty finds it to be a bargaining chip as it is in an acct with my name on it. He brought this money to our M.

So that is the sticky side of things... I am keeping him from HIS money. frown