There have been on going texts over the order... asking why it can't be lifted.. courts closed is my excuse but I have never ever asked my atty over it ---- outside of the fact my atty said I could agree he could have the funds but she highly did not recommend it.
Stop engaging with him over this. Next time he brings it up reply with:
"I am not lifting the order on advice from my attorney. And will not discuss it further." Then ignore his ranting and raving on it. He thinks he can still manipulate you on such things.
Likely you like getting his attention still, deep down. That still shows attachment. So do you think deep down you like when he engaging with you even if it is in a negative way?
I hate the negative interactions... 100%.
I have been cowering over this order because deep down I don't want to displease him. Knowing that is my weakness I keep avoiding it.
Last night he was supposed to call about discussing the order. I was going to state exactly that - my atty does not advise I do such as he is asking. Since he said he was getting new atty and having to start all over I was going to suggest that the attys just handle it going forward... unless he feels that there may be other options and letting the attys go for now.
OK that last statement was dumb and shows I'm still plan b.
He never called last night. I just went to bed. Woke up to a text at 12:30am that his battery was dead. He tried calling at 9am but I was at work so ignored... ignored.. ignored...
I'm feeling stronger. I'm getting busier. Thanks for weighing in Steve85. Appreciate the support.
