It may just be my experience that tends away from too soon now, I was all in with heavy, quick feelings with my ex and its scared me. She was my high school sweet heart (gagging just writing that now), and my first everything. I ended up proposing after 3 months of dating her.......... I'm sure there is a tendency for people to avoid what they've had in the past and swing the opposite way, especially if its hurt you in a substantial way. You end up not trusting yourself because of another persons decisions. So personally, anytime I see intense, quick emotions combined with major decision making, it always puts up major red flags for me. Not to say whats what you're doing at all, I'm sure there's a healthy balance where you're logical about certain things and have the emotion to bring you together. Both have a purpose after all. As others mention I think its always a risk and you will never know long term how things play out, but that's how life is and you cant avoid it all to avoid the potential for pain. Which will likely be my path when I end up jumping into dating, lol.
