Certainly a plausible idea as well. I had no desire to meet him early on, when the X brought it up at that time I told her I trusted her judgement. My only real desire to do so is for the betterment of my daughters so they feel comfortable. It came to head several months back when my daughters made some comments about him. At that time I thought it would be good to meet him so I could gain some insight with the thought of actually supporting him and my xw when my daughters are with them.
Since the Doc has her son full time it is not as big of an issue since her son is only with his father a few days out of the month. Having 50/50 certainly puts a little more responsibility on the BF or GF especially if they are spending a lot of time around the kids.
