Divorce and Acceptance part 5

[Pax_luv]

It’s really tough. I do so much better when he’s silent.
After his initial email, I replied to let him know that I forwarded it to my attorney. Got an aggressive response back which I ignored as it did not require acknowledgment.
Then the next day, I got a more level headed email. He is not wavering in his approach, but his response was more level headed.

I can’t get into it anymore that that, but it’s so mentally and emotionally draining. He’a so adamant that he is doing the right thing by me.
And that triggers me, big time. It’s that reminder that I was nothing but a disposable accessory to him. And that’s where it hits the hardest. While I’m over him and the marriage, there’s still that underlying pain of having gone through all that.