Good job, Kit. Your H has been trying to manipulate you by being nice and you haven't taken the bait. I think it's safe to assume that he will try a new tactic and may even revert back to trying to intimidate you. Stay the course!
Don't worry about deciding whether you are done or not, your feelings and emotions will change frequently. Today you are done, tomorrow you will be pining for H. With lots of time, you will begin to balance out and think more objectively.
