I was good for a bit only responding to every 3rd or 4th text. That's my goal again.
I know you wanted to give him a shot at reconciling. If a technical hack won’t work for you, maybe a mind hack would help? Imagine how whenever you text him something non-essential how you’re resetting the clock—“How long was I going to gift him to miss me and consider reconciliation? I was going to give him 12 months! Do I care so little to give him only 3 days?!”
Its a good point.
He just texted about the protective order again. I've buried my head in the sand enough over this.
I just texted: "It cannot be lifted at this time... did you get all the documents you needed for the bank"
I'm done. I'm prepared for WWIII. I don't even care about his anger anymore.
When I say i'm done --- I'm done with the hope in recon. I'm still doing my work. Its hard and its a struggle and he will never know. But, I am done with cowering. Sure, I still want to please him... endlessly.
Let him yell... let him rave... let him get a new atty. What I want doesn't even blip on his radar --- no attys and time to work this out. I'm tired of not having my needs matter.
I kept this to 100% business. I hate it so very much. BUT, he needs to respect me.
