Originally Posted by AnotherStander
KC, hang in there, you're doing a lot better these days! You're maintaining perspective and putting DB into practice much better than before. I think you're starting to see that it's the right approach even though your heart is telling you to pursue, pursue, pursue. Good job smile Keep using us as your sounding board when you start having doubts.


Thank you -- overall my confidence is good. Its dips at times.

I'm not always making the right choice in interactions. BUT, I will pat myself on the pat that I am not creating more conflict. I'm not creating negatives AND I'm not discussing R.

But, I am hearing everyone and I need to stop all contact. He won't ever miss me if I'm a text away. I was good for a bit only responding to every 3rd or 4th text. That's my goal again.

I will have to see him again... back to being beautiful and upbeat and leaving him wondering why I'm soooo happy!