Hey L......yeah, it's pretty predictable. Odd that they have been dating for over 2 years and she has never brought him around me, flaunted him in my face, took to social media, etc.

I am not entirely sure what his sticking points are. Yes, he is short. Seems like he has little man's syndrome from how people have described him. Used to be a cop now he is a nurse. His kids are older, 1 in college and another a senior in high school. He lives in another town in a different school district so he would have to move to our town as my xw can't leave so maybe that is a sticking point. Who knows.

I don't get the impression they are spending a lot of time together. When he was studying to be a nurse I think he spent a lot of time at the xw's place. Now that he is working, combined with living 20 miles away I don't think their time together is the same.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018