If I had to guess probably ashamed. She seemed to do a lot of justifying him to me the times it would come up. Funny thing is that it hardly ever came up and she certainly doesn't need my approval but I guess if all things measure up to me (as her reference point) I guess you can't help the comparisons.
I would also hope that if you are going to D me you would at least need to upgrade in some area, I mean I am not sure that is possible but......bahaaaaaa!
My XW loves her alone time, is selfish and really enjoys being a part time parent. I would not be shocked if she never married again. When she was telling me about it she didn't seemed phased by it one bit. Just so very indifferent, it actually gave me flash backs about how indifferent she was towards me at the time. There was a brief moment where I felt sorry for the guy knowing how she is.
