I get it. How hard it is seeing his things leave the house.
How something of his can trigger all kinds of feelings.
How raw your emotions are.

My H packed up his things. Took a lot, but left a lot stored in our home.
He just recently asked for 2 of these things.
One last weekend.
One this weekend.
First time he asked for anything he’s left since he moved out 1 1/2 years ago.

It bothers me. I wonder what taking them means.
I get all emotional.
Than I stop myself and get on with my day.

Your H was rushed in his packing.
It’s probably as simple as he didn’t get it done.
I don’t believe he has any idea how taking care of this would affect you.
I don’t think they can think beyond their own needs.

It’s good you followed through with what you agreed to do.
We are human.
Let your thoughts and emotions spiral for a minute.
Than put it aside and get on with your day.