It’s a tough call honestly. I completely understand your want to have a normal as possible bday party for your D, but at the same time you don’t want your W to use that against you and claim you put your D in jeopardy by not respecting the guidelines of your state. Idk where you live but if there is a stay at home order, you could have that used against you.

And yes I know I took my kids to my brothers, but for me my out is on the edge of his property is a river. And fishing is encouraged in our state.


Me: 40
EX:37
Together 17 years
Married 16 years
5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11

BD 03/06/20, divorced 12/23/21