Originally Posted by Illidin
But I still need to buy a gift now and figure out if my wife will be coming to deliver it with me.

Mother's Day and your Anniversary are weeks away. Much can change in that time. Re: Mother's Day, I'd probably re-assess how you two are getting along a week before. I encourage my kids to give my ex-wife a card and/or gift on Mother's Day, but that's personal preference. Re: Anniversary, I'd probably skip the card because you two are not in a relationship for now--she's broken up or is on a no-boundaries break from you.

Originally Posted by Illidin
The bedroom thing is obviously a problem that has to be dealt with. But is that considered to be the right choice or is it just a personal decision to live together versus leave or ask them too. She discussed moving out of our bedroom but I haven't allowed it Im just not ready to sleep alone.

There are a range of reasonable responses. I'd avoid telling her she can't move out of the bedroom, and I'd avoid moving out yourself, but that still leaves many options to take your time and weigh.