I don't want a divorce II NEW THREAD Pt 10

[Pommy99]

KC, I get it. You don’t want him to contact you but you check your phone to see if he has; you could block him but you choose not to because you want to know if he’s contacted you. I am in the same space as you. But every time I feel like asking him to come home I remind myself that this is what * I * want. Only what I want. I would be asking him to Come back because it is what I want. What about what *he * wants? And I know that he does not want to come back or is not ready to come back. So I let it drop. Your H is not ready or does not want to. At the moment his chosen path does not include you. Erase yourself from it. He will use you as the easy option (eg asking for documents). He will be curious about your actions when you stop pursuing. It’s hard to let go of someone you love, when you can envision a perfect marriage with that person knowing the mistakes ypu made , and wanting an opportunity to rectify them. but you can’t entice him back with the way you look , his sexual attention is already elsewhere. Keep doing what you’re doing, but do it for you. You are not 2nd prize . You are not “almost” good enough for him but not quite. You are now beyond him. He doesn’t get to choose again, he already chose. Hugs . You are strong enough to let go because U deserve morevxx