I'm not sure there are any shoes left, LOL! He's moved out and is with OW and pushing for D. Not sure what else he could hit you with at this point. I think it's more likely that he's feeling some of the pressure is off since you've been cooperating, and he has his bike and the boat and much of his stuff. This is not uncommon, once the WAS sees their "end game" (divorce, "happy" life with OP) is starting to fall into place then they don't feel pressured anymore and they start relaxing and being more cordial.
I need this printed out in block letters and put on the wall.... YES, he is being WAY more cordial... NOT because he is interested in his W... because he is getting into his life without his W...
Ripping the bandaid off... moving forward... no regrets...
I fell for it... I got flirty... he stated I had told him I had plans this weekend... said I was watching the weather the event may get cancelled... what event he asks???... I'm vauge... hike with friend and dog...
He voluntarily tells me his plans may get cancelled as well... he had an even bike ride planned...
This is on/ off all afternoon.... I let him have the last text... I didn't want to continue... its too much and I'm waiting to see what the motive is ---- AND... drum roll... he states if he could come get more of his stuff this weekend, great.
If it weren't for this is how I'm staying in touch with everyone else I would just put the phone in a drawer. This is STILL about him and what he wants.... not about any curiosity of me.
Yup. Back to square one... but this chick can dig in her heels... I've got a stubborn side and he gets to see it.
