I got majority custody. He didn’t want anymore then his every other weekend and one night a week.
Yes, it was mostly my parenting. And her seeing how strong her mother is.
Of course they are going to be shattered at first. But life Is not a Disney movie. And as time goes on your kids will see that. In the long run they would see right through the facade you guys will be putting up. He cheating and cake eating, you miserable and unable to stand up for yourself out of fear.
That’s not so Disney movie like is it?
Parents who decide to stay together for their kids only works when they are committing to making the marriage better for themselves. They BOTH decide to work towards a healthy marriage for their kids sake.
Staying together the way you guys are right now is not what’s best for the kids. You’ll know when your wife wants to recommit to making your marriage work . And you might have to be divorced first for that. And stand on your own 2 feet and guide your kids through this.
It is not going to be easy at all. But I truly believe your ex is stringing your along for financial reasons. And that won’t end in a Disney fairytale
