Ginger, did you get full custody or more than 50/50? I feel like that plus your Ds age helped. Not discounting all your work, growth and parenting of course which is likely the biggest factor in her positive development. My D4 loves Disney and families. She'll get hit by this. I think my son could be ok at this age, but my D4 absolutely loves family units. I feel like her reality would be shattered. I'd feel much more comfortable if she was younger.
On the flipside to your point, I could do everything possible on my end if we split, to give the kids a better life. Would 50 percent of the time be enough? And thats assuming I'm ok. We will lose our house, school district if we D. Education and quality of life will drop for all but mostly me being the breadwinning H.
This is so hard, I dont want to be the one to file however I think I have to.
At this point my W has not initiated 1 relationship chat, unless its after I tried to move on. No out of the blue comments or realizations unless I started a chat.
Last edited by Core; 04/24/2004:26 PM.
H37, W37 D4, S2 ILYBNILWY 9/19 BD 9/19 EA discovered 10/19 Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated
