We had another counseling session. It went ok, she is still a little hesitant to work on the marriage. She did say she is going through a midlife crisis. First step to getting help is admitting there is a problem right? She still doesn't know what she wants.

Counselor gave us 3 things to work on, thanking one another for what we do around the house, hugging at least 2 times a week and going on a walk together. We've always been appreciative of what the other does around the house so that's not a problem. I did come home yesterday with a Sonic drink for everyone and she gave me a hug, so baby steps? So we'll see if she does the walk with me this weekend.

Taking this one day at a time, still working on me that's the only thing I can change.


H (me): 48 W: 43
M: 23 T: 24
D:21, S:19, S:15
BD 2/2020
Still living together and going to MC