Hi Unchien, I was referring to, "I probably won't post much other than possibly feelings." Post whatever makes you comfortable, I was proposing sharing the status of the case wasn't likely put you at any disadvantage. Your attorney is of course the key person to trust for legal details and strategy.
Originally Posted by unchien
She wants to revisit the possibility of 50/50 a year from now, "see how it goes", etc. Why would I agree to that with somebody
Why would you agree to that.. with anyone? You almost certainly should get 50/50 custody sometime soon! It sounds like you care a lot about your children and being a good father.
The opposite of agreeing isn't an expensive battle. The "expensive" bit triggered my curiosity as it sounded like what many worry about when they start working the system, but my experience of divorce cases--admittedly, limited to self and family and friends--is that the person seeking guidelines amount pays little compared to the person seeking something different. Courts like 50/50 and paths to 50/50. I've seen that even when there's been past criminal or abusive behavior--given time without incidents and counseling. I wonder if your attorney set that expectation that defending your basic rights as a father would be expensive? You don't have to answer me, just my two cents to consider.
