I probably won't post much other than possibly feelings journals for awhile.
I get you may not want your ex-wife to know full details of your legal strategy, but consider whether her reading roughly how it's going would present problems. e.g., "I need to get to 50/50 within a short period of time, her attorney says only 67/33." We're here whatever you choose to share. My experience with a divorce where one side went expensive (>$100,000) and the other didn't spend as much (<$15,000) on a court battle was that the extra money didn't buy so much. Courts like to work towards guidelines, norms. If you have a good attorney they should be able to help guide you from here to 50/50.
Originally Posted by unchien
And... I feel centered. I feel calm. I just want equal time with my kids. I deserve it. I feel centered in my values and I don't care if people object.
Absolutely getting to 50/50 is a great goal! Keep it up, Unchien. You've got this.
