The whole point of the vision board is you make those dreams visible and you put it somewhere that you will see it every day. Eyes on the prize. Subconsciously your mind will process it, start to believe it, and orient you towards the steps to make it happen.
This is hard. You call it dreams and I'm just trying to find my will to live. I didn't want this. I dig deep into my soul trying to imagine a happy life without him. I wanted that dream with him but it's nothing he will ever want.
I met him when he was 24 years old. He was on his 2nd new car, had an apt full of new furniture, state of the art stereo system, king size bed, menus on the fridge because he didn't cook and a killer wardrobe. I thought he made a lot of money. Nope he was $42k in debt (massive for 1990).
I was driving a $1500 car that I paid cash for and everything but my mattress was used. That McMansion life was nice until the newness wore off then it became something that I took for granted, couldn't afford and it took 3 days to clean. So not worth it.
