Do you think I eventually be happier with him gone given everything I’ve posted here about him? His parents hated each other by the time they retired. The money was fabulous but they were miserable. MIL was an alcoholic and she was just mean. Whined all the time. Never happy. FIL batted his doe eyes feigning total good guy status then tripped MIL (she was using a walker) when he thought no one was looking. He was a total pain and very selfish. My parents drank, gambled and also hated each other. I’ve had a lot of IC to overcome my demons (much work still to do) but H has done nothing. Both our fathers were racist, homophobic, sexist jerks. Our mothers were miserable and both blamed their husbands. Total martyrs. This was my future wasn’t it?
