I am struggling today. I feel like I have definitely put myself in the friend zone. I have showed my husband that I will put up with his B.S. and still act like his friend. I don't want to be his friend, but I'm afraid to detach and act "as if".

I know I need to focus on me instead of him. I alternate between sad and angry. Why is this so freaking hard?

I don't want to be plan B. Is it too late to turn this around and get out of the friend zone?


Me: 47 H: 45
T: 24 M:23
D23
BD #1 12/19: ILYBNILWY
BD #2 2/20: I discovered H was having an affair with OW. (OW is 21 and lives in another country)
Current R status: Separated.