I'm not looking to end things to avoid the pain, stop the pain or to find happiness. Its to move to a better situation....Im back to considering filing and just being done with this BS. Not to avoid the pain, but to move on.
From the tone of your posts, I am not convinced you are emotionally ready to file.
However, you do need to protect yourself financially. Maybe this means filing for D (if that is the only option). Maybe this means a financial separation. IDK. Maybe consult a L (discreetly) about your options.
Once you are on relatively equal/stable footing with finances and the kids, by all means, stand as long as you want. Or don't. If you aren't on equal footing, you are not standing for your MR.
Originally Posted by Core
I want the action to end things to come from her, not me though itll likely be me.
You wouldn't be the first person here to put up with a lousy financial situation waiting for your WAS to initiate the action.
