people dont really get it what we are trying to do here they want to hear about the struggle, not all but some that dont want to here Im sending him the best and hope he is ok
There is nothing to say..I had no last words..no closure..and no contact for years except for a VM sort of apology..
sometimes it is sad but...I can tell you with no contact it was easier to let go after the initial few years If someone asks I still say I wish him the highest and best/...no resentment this way I cant create a story in my mind that creates continuous resentment and lifelong bitterness What do you want for you?peace or pain create your inner story for peace like Sometimes M dont work maybe some are not meant to be forever yes love hurts
It is not the loss that matters but what we learn from it and if we can forgive, love and let go
Whatever you think, whatever closure you give to this make sure it serves you for the good I mean..create a story in your mind that you can peacefully live with
We had a great M, a sweet child and great years Sometimes Relationships end I wish him the very best
repeat it every time soon it becomes the new truth and you get peace in time
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow