people dont really get it
what we are trying to do here
they want to hear about the struggle, not all but some
that dont want to here Im sending him the best and hope he is ok

There is nothing to say..I had no last words..no closure..and no contact for years
except for a VM sort of apology..

sometimes it is sad but...I can tell you with no contact it was easier to let go after the initial few years
If someone asks
I still say
I wish him the highest and best/...no resentment
this way I cant create a story in my mind that creates continuous resentment and lifelong bitterness
What do you want for you?peace or pain
create your inner story for peace
like
Sometimes M dont work
maybe some are not meant to be forever
yes love hurts

It is not the loss that matters but what we learn from it
and if we can forgive, love and let go

Whatever you think, whatever closure you give to this
make sure it serves you for the good
I mean..create a story in your mind that you can peacefully live with

We had a great M, a sweet child and great years
Sometimes Relationships end
I wish him the very best

repeat it every time
soon it becomes the new truth
and you get peace in time


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow