I asked you this before and I don’t think you ever answered. Are you in IC? I am concerned about your well being right now. You listed your dealbreakers and your H broke all of them. Have you thought about that for a minute?
I truly don’t think you understand how long this entire process takes to play itself out.
I will leave you with one of my favorite quotes. “You can ignore reality but you can’t ignore the consequences of ignoring reality”. Really think about that quote.
Not in IC at this moment.
Yes - H broke 1 and 2 of the deal breakers. I'm not so forgiving of number 2 but I have realized the part that I played in the process of number 2. Many couples get through a PA so its possible we could as well? Who knows? There would have to be a lot of work done by H to get through number 2. He is still into chasing happiness elsewhere right now. The reality is even if I got myself to a place where number 2 could be dealt with H is no where near that right now. As for 3 - we are not D yet. Will get to D - highly likely... that is MY end point and where I walk for sure.
Currently he is texting this am about how his free legal atty dropped him and he has to get another one and start all over... then he shared he screwed up his unemployment... Not sure why he feels the need to share this with me.
Regardless I've got outside chores to do... I'm gonna get busy!!!
