I know that is exactly what I need to do... have been trying to keep things amicable because of course my goal is recon...
I know your ex is pushing the "Amicable" vs. "Lawyer" false dichotomy hard. My ex and I both have attorneys. It's made things more amicable. It eliminated the drama of her and I arguing over what's fair and worrying what the consequences might be of saying yes or no to a change.
