Unfortunately, it usually has to get worse, before it gets better. He knows you recon, and he is using it to manipulate things in his favor.
When you're ready, simply tell him, "No, and I don't plan on it."
BTW, the NYE party wasn't a make it or break it event. It is a culmination of a lot of things. He would have found another reason to make his decision.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
