Most likely though, she knows he is married as they affair down (it’s a step down as no woman who has her sh$t together gets with a married man!). Either way, really not a good foundation to a relationship and NOT romantic. Let’s not glamorize trashiness. He is no prize. He is a man having an affair. No healthy woman would knowingly involve herself in that as she would be attracted to an UNmarried man.
She knows he's married, knows he left me for her, I think he lived with her for 7 months until he got his own place, she's been to his new place (that's how he got caught). He affair'ed up in looks but without personal growth history will likely repeat. He will be Mr Wonderful until they live together for a while. She's getting a heavy drinker, emotionally void, a "get off my lawn" old man, yelling at people in traffic, blaming his miserable life on her (and me), he's about as fun as getting your taxes done. He doesn't connect emotionally so she will eventually feel neglected and used.
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Square your shoulders, hold your head up and sleep with a clear conscience. You will become strong and confident through this.
Working on this. Typing out his bad qualities helps especially since now I think the OW is 15 years younger than me. He's totally gray headed now (no gray at BD), in pain from stress, looks like death, yes he's a total catch.
