Just remember it's your house and your bed, you wouldn't go to someone's house and expect to sleep in their bed. No need to argue about it either.
This! Thanks ovr, this got me back to the right mindset. Didn't really matter tonight but still very good advice that gave me confidence. SIL wasn't here when I got home. So now saying good night from my own comfy bed. On to a new great day in this new reality! Spring and soon summer!
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021