Lol Sandi! Thanks for a good laugh.

Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Just remember it's your house and your bed, you wouldn't go to someone's house and expect to sleep in their bed. No need to argue about it either.

This! Thanks ovr, this got me back to the right mindset.
Didn't really matter tonight but still very good advice that gave me confidence.
SIL wasn't here when I got home. So now saying good night from my own comfy bed.
On to a new great day in this new reality! Spring and soon summer! smile


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021