Why can't I man up and tell him I'm not doing a d*mn thing over the financial order???
I'm guessing you anticipate he'll get angry?
Imagine how strong you'll be when you can muster a "No"--no excuses, apologies. NO I don't think that's in my best interest, NO that's not my problem to solve. If you have a fair deal pass it by my lawyer. Yes, I see you're angry. I won't be talked to that way. -click- (He loses talking to you privileges for the day)"
I think I'm just not going to respond. And if he pushes I will just text him - NO.
I wish I could go back in time and have just gone the NYE party with him. That was the catalyst. I get it that I was so checked out with him that I didn't spend Christmas Eve or NYE with him. I was so into my own head space that I didn't see how hurt my H was.
But, I can't go back. And, here we are.... total devastation... he is divorcing me... he isn't having any hope that this M can be saved. It is what it is....
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