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[CanBird]

Good Morning Can

I would not push to establish guidelines. Your questions are valid, reasonable, rational, and deserving of an answer. Which he will probably not be forth coming.

Consider:

H is leaving tomorrow.

H is the one who announced he is done with M.

H has OW.

H is the one who is leaving.

H should be the one to make arrangements before he leaves.

You cannot read his mind. If he wants to leave without some communication arrangements in place, so be it. You have D3. You don’t need to run after H to ensure his communication strategy is in place, that’s not your job.

Let him leave. If he hasn’t discussed the plan for contact then just fit him in when you and D3 have time. Remember he is leaving without discussions on separation, communication, bills, etc. You don’t have to run around to get his life in order. Your life is in order. Leave him to his mess. He need to work through it and grow up.

DnJ

Thanks Dnj. Yes, I do need to remember/consider what he's done. And what he hasn't done and leave it. IF he wants to talk, he knows very well how to. I will leave it alone.

Most friends think I'm crazy for not asking a lot of questions. I'm just stepping back from H & letting him go.