Reminds me that he's a sexist, homophobic, racist, judgemental, miserable jerk
[quote]Will you PLEASE write this on your bathroom mirror or someplace else where you can see it all the time????? And keep asking yourself WHY you even would want this guy? The answer is - YOU DON'T. You were living with a toxic person and he did you a FAVOR by exiting your life.
I think having him is better than no one. A warm body, someone to go out with, being part of a couple, having help, money, etc. I read the dating stories here and I'm thinking that's a no from me. The odds of another R working out are very slim. I mean I could find someone, anyone if I put in the effort. I could settle for another avoidant or some lonely divorced man but I've got kids who need me. H's life is one big party. I don't want that life but I'm upset that he has it.
