Thanks AS,

I´ll let her know before sending it, that makes sense.

Yes, I absolutely would like to keep the door open for recon if she can realize what she´s done and is truly remorseful about it. But too late to go to that burger place now and I don´t think she will ask again but we´ll see.

She was supposed to come over and get one of her boxes but wrote to me today that she thinks she has a fever. Hoping it's not that virus but I told her she absolutely needs to stay home then. An hour later she messaged again -

W: Didn't you have a 50-60´s music playlist? Can you share that with me somehow?

A bit of background on this. W and I used to love to listen to music from 50-60´s together. I made a playlist that was in the background during the dinner at our wedding. After the BD, I get nauseous if I hear any of those songs. Even today, as far as I´ve come, I can´t listen to to that. So I answered -

Me: Yeah, our wedding playlist.

Then I sent the spotify link, playlist is called "wedding mingle"

W: awww... thank you, I could only find a few


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019