B, regarding the final D papers I wasn't saying that you should temp check her (I- "is this really what you want?") I just meant that I thought it would be polite to talk to her and let her know you were sending it through, or "notify" her as Mumin put it. Just as a courtesy.
Your latest posts make it sound like she is still just trying to keep you in the friendzone. She may not have the long line of suitors at her door that she expected, so keeping you hanging on as Plan B probably makes her feel more comfortable. But let me ask you, do you want to keep the door open to recon? If you do, then maybe you should go have that burger now and then to remind her what she's missing. Don't be available to her ALL the time, but every now and then you might go do something with her. The key is letting her pursue while you stay a bit distant, which right now is exactly what's happening.
