MLC circus

[peacetoday]

I think reconnection is always possible for any MLC Family
what that may look like may vary from family to family according to what the MLCer is like when/if he wakes up
and what the LBS wants

Does he drink or use drugs?
if he does, then there is an added issue of addiction which I belleve is a loosing battle for any spouse
unless the MLCer makes gets help in AA

Probably a friendship is a good place to start and that would give you and him both space and time to see what happens
I think the key would be to be kind and treat as an old friend
see how he shoes up for you an kids?..

then you can adjust your choice as the days pass

The friendship probably has to come first, b4 any new relationship
And you can always end the friendship or create a co-parenting friendship if it moves that way

either way
no expectations
work on healing you
be cordial upbeat and kind
have an exciting life
wait and C