Would OW be okay with H taking his W on a bike ride??? It seemed weird.
Why does this matter? It seems you are searching for any glimmer of a weak link in their relationship, which is understandable because you are hurting, but ultimately takes up so much of your time. Why wouldn't she be OK with it - he moved out and you are not a threat to their relationship at this moment, and a bike ride wouldn't change that.
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It would be enjoyable in and of itself. The fact that he was wanting to spend some time with me? Seeing me as the W he used to love?
It seems the best part of DBing and working on yourself is that you get away from needing so much external validation from others. Why is his opinion so tied to your self worth? You have so many great other things that are there to lift you up. I know this is all a lot easier said than done. You have a lot going for you, and have had a lot of really great advice from others. Switch the focus back to you.
