Why are you so so fixated on this bike ride? Do you think this bike ride is going to change everything? That going on a bike ride with you would be the magic bullet?
I honestly let the idea of a bike ride completely drop after he drove off on it 1 1/2 week ago.
Unprompted it was brought up by him randomly at the end of a moveout session 1 week ago. I was caught off guard and surprised. My H has some memory issues - example every time he is at the house he states "oh I've got to get those hinges for the gate". Its something he wants to do but when he is not here - out of sight out of mind - until he comes to the house and "sees" the gate. It would be just like him to want to take me on the bike ride and then remember an hour after he leaves the house or later that day. I realize its no longer my job to remind him of things. I never ever bring up the gate... I probably was very wrong to bring up the bike ride.
Is it a magic bullet??? No. But, it would be a 180 for me and something that was important to my H before he left.
I doubt it will happen. I certainly will never bring it up again.
