Even if she is supermodel pretty just pity her. Either he has lied to her and told her he is not married and she believes him or she knows she is dating a married man. If he lied to her, when she does realize he is married, if she has a thimble worth of self respect she will drop him.

Most likely though, she knows he is married as they affair down (it’s a step down as no woman who has her sh$t together gets with a married man!). Either way, really not a good foundation to a relationship and NOT romantic. Let’s not glamorize trashiness. He is no prize. He is a man having an affair. No healthy woman would knowingly involve herself in that as she would be attracted to an UNmarried man.

Square your shoulders, hold your head up and sleep with a clear conscience. You will become strong and confident through this.


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced