Thanks LH,

I don't think she will ask again after I said we can't be friends. But she might think of excuses to contact me for things that we've agreed are "important". Time will tell.

Thank you M,

Sorry but I need to hear from the vets here.

I think you mean well when giving advice and appreciate that. But the vets have been here long and have studied hundreds or more situations. I hope that makes sense and again, sorry if I seem ungrateful, that is not my intention at all.

But to comment on what you wrote, I don't see how I could notify her. Any wording I can think of would give her the impression that I want her to stop me from proceeding.

Do you mean how I feel about the dating app? I've used dating apps for a while now but been less of that lately.

Yes, working out almost as much. Fortunately gyms are open here but I do at home workouts for cardio whenever I'm not lifting weights. So some type of workout 6 days a week. Makes me feel good and allows me to have cheat meals every once in a while. Hope you are doing well!


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019