Miss



Usually they reconnect with the kids first...
What is his current relationship with the kids?
His old friends?
His family?

spouse last

I would continue to do as you are
leaning way back...focusing your energy on your future plans with or without him
and right now it is without him
no expectations

Keeping yourself safe..relationships with kids, family and friends
You can respond and be cordial
dont initiate

he may just want a friendship since you are being so kind to him
he may be thinking friends?

IDK -- but I would be careful
they want to keep us hooked even with no intention of returning

Only time will tell..they also have touch and goes
where they seem normal..then back to MLC land
also the crises may have affected him to want to clear things with you and this can be the only way he knows

If he is serious it will take time to really see his motives
truthfully rarely do we see a spouse return ,but it does happen

read Westos thread and Gordies...they had returning spouses


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow